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Inq. of the Week: Gamers Get Some

September 23, 2008 by Dave

If you’re playing 4th edition, you want to be selling your soul for dark powers. The Warlock came out on top of last week’s poll asking what your favorite 4e class is. The new, improved Rogue comes in second, fueled by stabby stabby. The Fighter is a close third, with the other new class Warlord falling right after that. Laser clerics and no longer always-LG Paladins come in at the bottom.

As I observe my D&D games in the present day, and compare them to the games of yore in high school and college, the biggest difference that has to be taken into account is how many people in the game are married. While jobs and other committments that come with being a “grown-up” (something I haven’t mastered yet) are often the reason for difficulties, the responsibilities of being a husband/wife factor into everything when planning and putting together games. Plus, just take a look at ChattyDM’s thread on people’s reactions to your RPG hobby and see how many people talk about the role of a significant other in their gaming, and you’ll see what I mean.

Thus I ask…

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Filed Under: Featured, Inquisition of the Week Tagged With: gamers, husbands, relationships, wives

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Dave "The Game" Chalker is the Editor-in-Chief and Co-Founder of Critical Hits. Since 2005, he has been bringing readers game news and advice, as well as editing nearly everything published here. He is the designer of the Origins Award-winning Get Bit!, a freelance designer and developer, son of a science fiction author, and a Master of Arts. He lives in MD with e and at least three dogs.

Comments

  1. The Chatty DM says

    September 23, 2008 at 11:11 am

    I’m married with a semi-gamer but fully-gamer friendly woman. Bless her! ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Avaril says

    September 23, 2008 at 11:42 am

    My wife isn’t a gamer, but was an English major, so she loves stories and such. She is a big help when it comes to making new games.

    Avaril’s last post: On Dungeons, Dragons, and Devoutness

  3. Sucilaria says

    September 23, 2008 at 12:26 pm

    My husband is pretty good about not impeding my gaming habits, especially when it involves Assassin’s Creed. He’ll even play Mario Kart with me sometimes, but I have to play a little easy so he won’t feel so bad.

    He is really biased against certain Final Fantasies, though…but we’re making it work, one day at a time.

    <3 ๐Ÿ˜‰

  4. Sucilaria says

    September 23, 2008 at 12:33 pm

    On a more sincere note, I’d just like to say how truly, truly blessed I am to have such a wonderful man in my life. ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. The Game says

    September 23, 2008 at 12:35 pm

    Is this where I point out that Managing Editors have the power to go in and edit comments to make them say whatever he wants? ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. Blumpkin says

    September 23, 2008 at 12:35 pm

    I am of the “A Gamer who doesn’t fit into the above categories” category. I guess I’m technically single, but I’m being used for sex.

  7. DNAphil says

    September 23, 2008 at 12:59 pm

    I have a gamer-friendly wife who did a short stint in an In Nomine game, when we were dating, to understand what it was all about. She also did a weekend trip to Origins one year.

    After that, she told me that she now understood my hobby, and that while she was not going to play, and peruse other hobbies, that she got it and that it was all cool.

    DNAphil’s last post: Weekend Updateโ€“ 22Sep2008

  8. Bartoneus says

    September 23, 2008 at 1:31 pm

    I’m married to Sucilaria, and will refrain from editting her comments. ๐Ÿ˜€

  9. Reverend Mike says

    September 23, 2008 at 1:36 pm

    On the borderline between single and relationship…and with a girl who’s into all the anime/D&D/gaming stuff!…finally!…

    I’m in a great spot right now…or at least comparatively better than being with a cocaine addict…not fun…

    Though, I do have some funny stories to tell now…

    Reverend Mike’s last post: The Second Party: A Prelude

  10. Reverend Mike says

    September 23, 2008 at 3:23 pm

    Speaking of funny stories…

    My boy, Corbin, proposed to a girl (well, at least in character) on WoW once…she accepted the ring and the online ceremony was planned…Corbin tailored up the clothes and invited a bunch of his guild buddies…and she stood him up on the day of…I believe he shouts angrily at her whenever she’s online…

    Shame to see avatar relationships fall apart like that…

    Reverend Mike’s last post: The Second Party: A Prelude

  11. The Game says

    September 23, 2008 at 3:36 pm

    Rev: I take it it’s an RP server and not a PVP server then, otherwise, revenge can be swift!

  12. David says

    September 23, 2008 at 8:29 pm

    Gamer with gamer wife. Though she’s not as dedicated to it as I am, it was her idea that I should go to Gen Con.

  13. joshx0rfz says

    September 23, 2008 at 9:44 pm

    Go Blumpkin! Very nice!

    joshx0rfz´s last post: This s**t is EPIC!

  14. The O says

    September 23, 2008 at 10:48 pm

    I’m in the same situation at ChattyDM.

    Also, Game, there are RP-PVP servers in WoW now as well. Oh how god-awful are they are as well.

    The O´s last post: Follow the Yellow Cat Road

  15. Vampir says

    September 24, 2008 at 2:35 am

    I’m single and not interested in relationships at this point of life…

  16. Tomcat1066 says

    September 24, 2008 at 3:09 pm

    Married gamer with a wife who’s been a gamer in the past and would like to get involved again in the future (she says anyways). Good times ๐Ÿ˜‰

  17. Satin says

    September 25, 2008 at 10:16 am

    Married – my husband is a gamer too ๐Ÿ™‚

  18. Virgil Vansant says

    September 25, 2008 at 4:53 pm

    Gamer with a gamer-friendly wife with geeky tendencies. She is addicted to Heroes and Mario Kart, and is willing to give RPGs a try some day.

  19. Geek's Dream Girl says

    September 30, 2008 at 12:12 am

    I’m a girl gamer happily in love with a boy gamer! YAY!

    Geek’s Dream Girl´s last post: DM Software Tools: Encounter Manager by Anubisware, Beta 0.4.0.0

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